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Talking about suicide can help prevent it

People who are thinking about suicide often feel alone. Starting a conversation lets them know it’s okay to get help and that someone is there to listen.

If you’re thinking about suicide, Call or Text 9-8-8 to get help now.

Call 911 for a medical emergency.

Ask, Listen, and Learn

Knowing how to Ask, Listen, and Learn (ALL) is something we can ALL do to help prevent suicide. 

When you Ask about suicide directly, it won’t make things worse. Instead, it lets the person know that they can talk about it. Then, Listen with purpose and Learn how to connect them to help.

Learn how we can ALL help

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Ask

How to ask about suicide directly

Find out how to start the conversation and connect to help when you think someone is thinking about suicide.

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Listen

What to do if someone’s thinking of suicide

Learn how to listen, respond, and connect someone to help if they say they are thinking about suicide.

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Learn

Learn what helps during the conversation

Understand how to talk to someone who's thinking about suicide with 5 action steps from experts.

Places that can help

Find Services

County of San Diego Behavioral Health Services

Learn about specialty mental health and substance use services for adults and kids offered by County of San Diego Behavioral Health Services.

Helpline

9-8-8 Lifeline

Calling or texting 9-8-8 can connect you with trained counselors who can help, including local professionals at San Diego County’s Access & Crisis Line. Support is available 24/7 if you or someone you know is struggling emotionally.

Youth Resources

Talk It Out SD

Youth can see how to support a friend or how to find support for themselves.

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Mobile Crisis Response Teams (MCRT)

MCRT can help people who need help with substances or alcohol, are feeling hopeless or anxious, or are thinking about suicide.

More info about suicide prevention

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Signs that someone may need help

Pain isn’t always obvious, but most people considering suicide show early signs that they are thinking about it.

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Remove firearms to keep them safe

Removing access to guns from someone in a suicidal crisis saves lives and gives them what they crucially need: time.

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Talk with your teens early and often

Learn why talking to your teen about suicide early, often, and directly makes things better, not worse.

Places that can help

More info about suicide prevention

Find Services

County of San Diego Behavioral Health Services

Learn about specialty mental health and substance use services for adults and kids offered by County of San Diego Behavioral Health Services.

An older man looks out a window. His expression is somber.

Signs that someone may need help

Pain isn’t always obvious, but most people considering suicide show early signs that they are thinking about it.

Helpline

9-8-8 Lifeline

Calling or texting 9-8-8 can connect you with trained counselors who can help, including local professionals at San Diego County’s Access & Crisis Line. Support is available 24/7 if you or someone you know is struggling emotionally.

A man enters the code on a gun safe, closing it securely.

Remove firearms to keep them safe

Removing access to guns from someone in a suicidal crisis saves lives and gives them what they crucially need: time.

Youth Resources

Talk It Out SD

Youth can see how to support a friend or how to find support for themselves.

A mom and her teen son have a casual conversation on the couch.

Talk with your teens early and often

Learn why talking to your teen about suicide early, often, and directly makes things better, not worse.

Find Services

Mobile Crisis Response Teams (MCRT)

MCRT can help people who need help with substances or alcohol, are feeling hopeless or anxious, or are thinking about suicide.

Links are available in English. Some services may have translation available.